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MANatomy and Psychology 1.0.1 !
1. LOOK AT THE PICTURES FOR ABOUT 1 MINUTE.
2. ANSWER THE FOLLOWING:
WHAT FEATURE DID YOU INITIALLY STARE AT?
WHAT PART OF A GUY'S MANATOMY HAVE YOU REPEATEDLY MADE MENTAL NOTES ON (OR MORE THAN OCCASION, DROOLED AND TOOK INTO DEEP CONSIDERATION?!
In my last blog, I have explained what it means when men check us out. This time around, it is time for women to have the spotlight and what it means in deeper psychology contrary to men who have a more direct approach "What-I-see-is-what-I-want-to-get" mode.
PSYCHOLOGICALLY Speaking, Women have a different approach and emotional thought process when it comes to Dating, Romance, Intimacy and Sexual preference. Now aside from the private fantasies that we each harbour while staring at these seemingly hunky species of MANimals (Oh ye, don't deny it!!) here are general meanings to the answers.
The ANSWER TO THE 1ST QUESTION has 2 possible meanings:
On a POSITIVE note, it denotes a personal concept of sexual power, feminine confidence, and a woman's perceived ability in terms of intimacy, and preference, general state of mind while looking at the feature.
The FLIPSIDE is that, it can also denote what a woman lacks / feels to miss out / or something that she would want for herself. For example, if a woman stares continuously on a man's abs...she may feel that she neglected herself, or doesn't exercise too much to be healthy....more explanation on this)
***Although the information given is based on some psychology , interviews and observations in women.........it is up to the reader to responsibly decide how this relates to real life.
The answer to the SECOND QUESTION shows the tip of the iceberg of what we consider in in the long-haul! Ladies admit it, at one point we have looked upon a man we have wondered if he could be "dada to my kids", "Shrek errrr Prince in shining armor", "The ultimate alpha cowboy" or whatever spins your mental wheels.
To make it easy, I am placing color legends. For question 1 answers leaning on the positive I use Sky-blue, and Orange for negative.
For question 2 answers as in what it means when you have made mental notes in particular , I will be using Light Green
IF YOU FIRST CHECKED OUT....................................
FACE and EYES
A1 :
You are thinking how handsome he looks, how presentable he is to show to mom and dad (* with a shotgun in his hand ) , and imagining how you two would look together as a couple walking by while other people stare.
Chances are, if you perceive him as someone too handsome you may think that you are not that beautiful or worthy to be with him. When defense mechanisms come into play, thoughts like "he's too handsome, he's probably out-of-league, vain & stuck up, taken or gay anyway"
IF YOU FIND YOURSELF CONSTANTLY STARING AT IT :
A:
In this regard, a woman is trying to read a man in a deeper sense with questions such as "how sincere is he? Is he checking me out or any other woman in this room? What kind of guy is he really deep inside? , or wonder what his probable blood line is and the kinds of kids you two would have. In terms of intimacy, just like men, women of this class are not all about the sex and most likely to remain faithful to their partners.
ARMS and how he WORKS IT
Men with big arms have been considered as "macho and hard-working". We normally associate this part with a third degree of masculinity coupled with force and power. Ladies drawn to these are in general are responsible, hard-working and have independent streaks.
There is a lack of emotional stability or subconscious discomfort and distrust with men. Majority of women who falls under this category grew up not used being around men, had traumas, and strong distrust. Seeing this feature can also mean a subconscious yearning for the opposite sex intimacy but fear is a constant restraint for doing so. Probably a fear exists of whether or not a man is prone to physical harm.
We seek constant affection, love, acceptance, and protection. A girl who is generally drawn to arms is the type to reciprocate love and have stronger feminine instincts and the type to "baby" a man in times of illnesses or being bummed and may not easily fall unless sure to have found "THE ONE". Alternately it can also mean that she is leveling a man on how good a provider he is for the family. In relationships, this is the proverbial "boy, love me with all your heart and fierce passion and I shall constantly protect you, feed you, and take care of everything else."
ABS
***Sarah's note : I was ABSolutely stunned and ABSent minded for awhile while staring at these photos.
As for my Abs? They're ABStract shaped for now but who cares...men like these dig curvy women!! Haa!!
Majority of women ( if a guy in question is shirtless for real or in our eyes) are drawn to ABS as this is the universally perceived sign of masculinity , athleticism, and in a nutshell Alpha Male. Lasses noticing abs first on a positive scale are strong, confident, and have high standards in terms of dating.
This can be a sign that a woman lacks intimacy, needs a confidence booster, and may be realizing split-secondly that she has neglected her health. Caution may be needed when self-esteem issues arise that may cause distorted views of self-worth, and what is healthy.
Abs on a Man to Women are the equals of what Knockers do to Men who feast their eyes on them. As reinforced, females who are constantly drawn to abs are naturally seeking an alpha male ---a man that exudes confidence, " I dont take crap" attitude, self-discipline, independence and emotional stability.
Women may have high expectations in men and this can be a good thing in a sense that they do not just settle for anyone.
CROTCH
To 'SIZE UP' , angling down our peepers on to his mystery member is a sign of being liberal when it comes to sex. It also means a woman knows what she wants---and all she needs is to figure out how to get it. Studies suggest furthermore that women are vastly competitive , adventurous and impulsive.
Sex may be taken casually and is also a sign of low self-worth, promiscuity. In a bigger picture, relating to practical everyday matters, women who focus on these are disorganized and pay less attention to other important details. (Note again *** seriously, it seems creepy if you meet a woman who is too focused on every man's groin!!)
Just as every men "Size up" females in terms of knockers & lovely derriere & the satisfaction and rewards gained, us girls do the same but in a different way. When men stop at the quick physical check-up and the pleasurable sensations they associate us with, women on the flip-side of the coin consider long-term pleasure, and associate this with how MANLY he is. Interestingly....this can mean a lot of things depending on a woman's age. Young women tend to see this as a challenge or adventure on how strong they can "handle it" or "take it in" while mature women see this more as "what we deserve and want" which is supposedly coming from more experience, and having concrete ideas of what they truly want and what works for them.
BUTT AND LEGS
"Who says you have no future looking at my behind?!"
The most sexually playful & adventurous women are naturally drawn to a man's behind and strong legs. It also means that a woman is detail-oriented, self-assured and powerful. This suggests a mix of contradicting traits blended sensibly so a woman may be care-free but strict when it comes to responsibilities, frank but tactful and diplomatic, playful in manner but logical in solving problems,
impulsive yet conscientious, risk-takers but with safety in mind ergo...the type to do bungee jumping but only after assurance the rope is secure, the instructors are good, safety gear are provided etc..., & resourceful.
Can be associated with being "flighty" in relationships resulting from being clueless of what they want in a relationship. Statistically speaking, majority of women have the tendency to have affairs, and slightly Obsessive Compulsive with commitment issues.
Although this DOES NOT apply to all, indications seem to point out that women attracted to these are not the types to be in a long-term commitment. When in a relationship and in an on-going commitment however, it is commendable on how much passion, love, energy and creativity is given in terms of romance and intimacy. This is not to say that a relationship will not work if such be the case...rather, it only emphasized the need to be creative in keeping the spark of romance alive!
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